Our hearts are the most intelligent organ in our bodies. And it’s language is Love. When we come from a place of Love in conversation, no matter what is said, the others heart will hear. Let Love guide your thoughts and the words will come. Their heart will hear you.
The opposite, as with all things, is also true. When we come from fear, no matter what we say, their heart will not allow it in. Even if your words are “I Love you”. When I began to pay attention to what my heart had to say I started to get how often in past relationships everything I said was based on fear. Fear they’d leave, or worse yet, stop loving me. Imagine how those worked out.
The mind might not always understand hearts language and that’s ok. Believe it or not, we don’t need to know all the time. Trust and allow your heart to guide you. Remind your mind that the heart is in charge. Learn to recognize and acknowledge when your thoughts, words, decisions are coming from a place of fear. From this place, you get to choose. Moment by moment. Without judgement. With compassion for your humanity. Fear is past based and usually not real. It’s like an hologram, an illusion. A very good illusion mind you, and an illusion nonetheless.
Choosing to develop the muscle of Love is an ongoing exercise with beautiful payoffs. Speaking from Love is like the gift that just keeps on giving. In relationships with friends, family and lovers. It’s obvious isn’t it? Where it might not be so obvious, and where it really is the most beneficial, is when we begin to fall in Love with ourselves. Deeply, passionately in Love with ourselves.
Start Speaking from Love
Start with You. Get in the practise of Speaking from Love to you. Moment by moment. Everyday. With compassion. Without judgement.
From me to you, know you are Loved.